The roots of Mother's Day go back to the ancient festivals dedicated to mother
goddess. In the ancient Greek empire, Rhea, the wife of Cronus, and mother of
Gods and Goddesses, was worshipped and honored at this time every year in a
spring celebration. In Rome too, Cybele, a mother Goddess, was worshipped, as
early as 250 BC. It was known as Hilaria, and it lasted for three days, called
the Ides of March, that is from March 15 to March 18. In more recent times,
during the 1600s, England observed "Mothering Sunday", or the
"Mid-Lent-Sunday, on the fourth Sunday in Lent. It was quite identical to the
modern-day celebrations.
In England where small chapels of ease served the ordinary needs of the
country parishioners, the people went on Mid-Lent Sunday to the 'Mother
Church' of the parish, laden with offerings. The historians hypothesize that
the Mother Church was substituted for Mother Goddess by the early church, who
adopted the ancient Roman ceremonies in honor of Cybele to venerate Mother
Mary. And this is why it became customary to visit the church on the day of
baptism or on Mother's Day.
The custom began for those working away from homes to return to their homes on
Mothering Sunday with small gifts, or, mothering cakes for their mothers. Back
home they presented their mothers with a cake and little nosegays of violets
and other wild flowers gathered in the hedgerows as they walked along the
country lanes. Whole families attended church together and there was a dinner
of roast lamb, or veal, at which mother was treated as queen of the feast.
Everything was done to make her happy. The custom of Mothering Sunday became
more widespread during the 19th century. Any youth engaged in such act of duty
was said to go 'amothering'. They day was celebrated with a festive mood
appropriate to that day. The prominent dish was called furmety. It was a dish
of wheat grains boiled in sweet milk, sugared and spiced.
In the northern part of England and Scotland there had been a custom of having
steeped peas fried in butter, with pepper and salt. Pancakes so prepared
passed by the name of carlings. It was so popular that from it Carling Sunday
became a local name for the day.
The mothering cake also went by the name of Simnel cake. This was a very rich
fruit cake, the richer the better. For, the Lenten fast dictated that it must
keep until Easter. First boiled in water and then baked, it sometimes had an
almond icing. At other times the crust was of flour and water, colored with
saffron. The word Simnel comes from the Latin Simila, which means high-grade
wheat flour.
The customs of the Mothering Sunday in England started to decline with the
changing pattern of the society following the Industrial Revolution.
In the United States, Anna M. Jarvis (1864-1948) is credited with bringing in
the celebration of Mother's day. Anna Jarvis intended to start a Mother's Day
as an honoring of mothers. The idea itself was so great that it did not take
long to be spread all over. Leaving aside the first observance, the official
recognition that followed for the observance came in galore. The governor of
West Virginia issued the first Mother's Day proclamation in 1910. Oklahoma
celebrated it in that same year. It stirred the same way in as far west as the
state of Washington. And by 1911, there was not a state in the Union that did
not have its own observances for Mother's Day. Soon it crossed the national
boundary, as people in Mexico, Canada, South America, China, Japan and Africa
all joined the spree to celebrate a day for mother love.
The immense popularity of the Day led to foundation of Mother's Day
International Association on December 12, 1912. Its purpose was to promote and
encourage meaningful observances of the event across the world. It was in 1934
Postmaster General James A. Farley announced a stamp to commemorate Mother's
Day. The stamp featured the famous painting "Arrangement in Grey and Black".
The painting was a portrait of the mother of James Abbott McNeill Whistler, an
English artist. It was brought in to the United States as part of an exhibit
in the year 1934.